I realize there's this unspoken norm and trend between married couples when it comes to cheating,correct me if am wrongWoman- Married for four years..with one child..its a normal afternoon..my husband's out..but he left his fone..a couple of calls come in.
I ignore,then a texts comes in..thinking it was him trying to reach me,I read it.."Hey darling..been waiting for you,how long does it take you to get away from her *bbrollineyesmiley,anyways meet me at.... Not the usually"..you can guess what happened next....if you haven't..then of course I went to the venue..and gave the girl a piece of my mind..he found out..came apologizing and all..one-two weeks later things are back to normal!
Man- married for four years,one child..normal afternoon..going to surprise my wife at work..I enter her office without knocking, because her secretary says there is no meeting..and I see her seriously!! making out with this macho man..#painful silence..I turn back slam the door,she obviously followed trying to apologize and what not... *bbnotinrestedsmiley ..calls were flying up and down,texts e.t.c
I didn't return home of course,went to stay with one of my guys..was really depressed..after one week, I realize I can't take it any more..I send her the divorce papers at least, I was nice enough to give her the house...
This is a typical response from spouses to cheating..now my question..why?????why is the woman more likely to stay with a cheating spouse,why is the man quick to discard,and most importantly..why is this "normal"?
mosy women are trained to have patience through thick and thin in a relationship, therefore they absorb all in and hope for a better future with the spouse
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